{"id":50031,"date":"2026-04-30T10:55:07","date_gmt":"2026-04-30T10:55:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=50031"},"modified":"2026-04-30T10:55:07","modified_gmt":"2026-04-30T10:55:07","slug":"helmoi-vjehrren-dhe-me-pas-e-mbyti-me-jastek-rrefehet-marjana-cmeta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=50031","title":{"rendered":"Helmoi vjehrr\u00ebn dhe m\u00eb pas e mbyti me jast\u00ebk, rr\u00ebfehet Marjana \u00c7meta"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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N\u00eb burgun e Pojsk\u00ebs t\u00eb destinuar p\u00ebr grat\u00eb, mbase lufta e brendshme psikologjike \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e fort\u00eb se n\u00eb \u00e7do institucion t\u00eb vuajtjes s\u00eb d\u00ebnimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo shpjegon edhe letrat e ndjera, letrat e pazakonta t\u00eb mb\u00ebrritura n\u00eb redaksin\u00eb e Inside Story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018Jam d\u00ebnuar me 32 vite dhe kam b\u00ebr\u00eb gati 10 vite deri tani. D\u00ebnimi m\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 19-vje\u00e7are (n\u00eb kufi t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs minorene), kam nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq vje\u00e7 sa un\u00eb jam k\u00ebtu. Nuk e kam shijuar m\u00ebm\u00ebsin\u00eb si \u00e7do grua tjet\u00ebr\u2019
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e Marjana \u00c7met\u00ebs\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb martes\u00eb e nisur pa formalizim ligjor, por me nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb brenda nj\u00eb familjeje, n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn banes\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit e bashk\u00ebshortit, n\u00eb Kam\u00ebz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cT\u00eb dyja grat\u00eb, edhe nusja edhe vjehrra nuk kishin marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mira me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn. Ku k\u00ebrkesa e llogaris\u00eb, n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre, jo past\u00ebrtia, jo pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb kishte krijuar nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie shum\u00eb t\u00eb acaruar\u201d, u shpreh gazetarja, Anila Hoxha.
Nj\u00eb realitet i zakonsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr shum\u00eb familje, ku bashk\u00ebjetesa sjell edhe p\u00ebrplasje, edhe tensione, edhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie q\u00eb nuk funksionojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia q\u00eb nuk funksiononte ishte ajo mes nuses dhe vjehrr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sipas dosjes, raporti mes Marjana Cmet\u00ebs dhe vjehrr\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, Lirije Lamit ishte i keq\u2026 i mbushur me mosmarr\u00ebveshje t\u00eb vazhdueshme q\u00eb nuk gjenin zgjidhje\u2026 por vet\u00ebm shtyheshin nga dita n\u00eb dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Derisa m\u00eb 30 prill 2017 konflikti kalon n\u00eb krim\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cE pandehura ka hedhur fotoksin\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb got\u00eb me l\u00ebng dhe ia ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb vjehrr\u00ebs p\u00ebr ta pir\u00eb, duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb se me pirjen e saj do largohej e keqja\u201d, tha Marjana Cmeta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb veprim q\u00eb nuk ndodh n\u00eb impuls, por k\u00ebrkon mendim, k\u00ebrkon vendim, k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb hap t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm drejt eliminimit. Pas konsumimit t\u00eb l\u00ebngut, gjendja e viktim\u00ebs p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsohet, por nuk p\u00ebrfundon aty. Sipas hetimit, mendimi p\u00ebr finalizimin e nj\u00eb krimi t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb nuk mbaron aty\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPas pirjes s\u00eb l\u00ebngut, gjendja sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore e Lirijes u p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsua. Meqen\u00ebse Lirija vazhdonte t\u00eb ishte gjall\u00eb, Marjana i pengoi frym\u00ebmarrjen me duar, duke e mbytur at\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb akt i dyfisht\u00eb\u2026 fillimisht helmim\u2026 m\u00eb pas mbytje\u2026 P\u00ebr hetuesit, tregon qart\u00ebsin\u00eb e q\u00ebllimit t\u00eb paramenduar me koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar krimin. Pra, nuk ishte nj\u00eb vendim momenti si pasoj\u00eb e tronditjes psikologjike\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHistoria u raportua si vet\u00ebvrasje, por rezultoi se ajo jo vet\u00ebm i kishte servirur helm, i kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb se helmi, pija ishte me formul\u00eb sesi t\u00eb dyja t\u00eb qet\u00ebsoheshin q\u00eb t\u00eb kishin nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb mir\u00eb, dhe m\u00eb pas teksa viktima po p\u00ebrp\u00eblitej, ajo m\u00eb pas edhe e mbyti. Mbaj mend n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb q\u00eb autorja kishte nj\u00eb beb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl q\u00eb sapo e kishte lindur\u201d, u shpreh gazetarja Anila Hoxha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cShum\u00eb gra q\u00eb kryejn\u00eb krime t\u00eb r\u00ebnda kan\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebs s\u00eb empatis\u00eb, ose e kan\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb doza shum\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebta. Zhvillojn\u00eb trajta t\u00eb personalitetit antisocial dhe ky i fundit i b\u00ebn ato m\u00eb t\u00eb prirura p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorur substanca, p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkelur norma shoq\u00ebrore e p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkelur ligje\u201d, u shpreh psikologia Almeida Xhaferri.
Por \u00e7far\u00eb e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb histori edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb ndodh menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas krimit. Sepse Marjana Cmeta nuk largohet, nuk arratiset, nuk p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb zhduk\u00eb gjurm\u00ebt\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ajo shkon dhe rr\u00ebfen te nj\u00eb imam n\u00eb nj\u00eb xhami n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, ku p\u00ebrshkruan gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pas ngjarjes, Marjana \u00c7meta u paraqit te Hysen Shehu, imam i Xhamis\u00eb s\u00eb \u00c7ollak\u00ebve, ndodhur te Qyteti Studenti, Nj\u00ebsia Bashkiake nr. 2, dhe i tregoi atij p\u00ebr veprimet e kryera prej saj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rr\u00ebfimin e Marjan\u00ebs, Hyseni e regjistroi n\u00eb nj\u00eb video, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn e pan\u00eb Agim Lami dhe kush\u00ebriri i tij Arben Saliu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pavar\u00ebsisht njoftimeve t\u00eb marra, Hyseni, Agimi dhe Arbeni nuk kall\u00ebzuan n\u00eb organet kompetente krimin e rr\u00ebfyer si t\u00eb kryer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rr\u00ebfimi i Marjan\u00ebs u regjistrua n\u00eb video. M\u00eb pas shihet edhe nga familjar\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. Por, pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebtij rr\u00ebfimi, krimi nuk kall\u00ebzohet menj\u00ebher\u00eb. Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr hallk\u00eb heshtjeje, nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr moment ku e v\u00ebrteta q\u00ebndron pezull pa u p\u00ebrballur menj\u00ebher\u00eb me drejt\u00ebsin\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deri n\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyrjen e organeve hetimore\u2026 q\u00eb e \u00e7ojn\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjen n\u00eb Prokurorin\u00eb p\u00ebr Krime t\u00eb R\u00ebnda. Hetimi pasoi me arrestimin e shpejt\u00eb t\u00eb saj, momente n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat ajo ushqente f\u00ebmij\u00ebn n\u00eb gji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Muajt e par\u00eb pas lindjes e kam ushqyer n\u00eb burg dit\u00eb p\u00ebr dit\u00eb. Imagjinoni vet\u00eb gjendjen time emocionale; gati adoleshente, me f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb sapolindur dhe n\u00eb burg. Jam p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb b\u00ebhem e fort\u00eb p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn time edhe pse brenda jam e rr\u00ebnuar dhe gati e pashpres\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cP\u00ebr grat\u00eb t\u00eb cilat i rrisin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb burg pas krimeve, se ato ndryshe nga burrat q\u00eb vrasin n\u00eb familje vuajn\u00eb nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb dyfisht\u00eb. Dhe ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vendimi i gjykat\u00ebs q\u00eb i d\u00ebnon, por edhe vendimi i familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt nuk lejojn\u00eb q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre t\u2019i takojn\u00eb.
Vazhdimisht kam v\u00ebrejtur lutjet dhe apelet e k\u00ebtyre grave, p\u00ebr t\u00eb ditur se ku i kan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\u201d, u shpreh gazetarja Anila Hoxha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cBrenda institucionit t\u00eb burgut grat\u00eb e vuajn\u00eb shum\u00eb munges\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe nj\u00eb pik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb duhet rregulluar n\u00eb sistemin penitenciar \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb shtohen takimet me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\u201d, u shpreh ish-drejtoresha e burgut t\u00eb grave, Xhoi Jakaj.\/InsideStory<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Në burgun e Pojskës të destinuar për gratë, mbase lufta e brendshme psikologjike është shumë më e fortë se në çdo institucion të vuajtjes së dënimit. Kjo shpjegon edhe letrat e ndjera, letrat e pazakonta të mbërritura në redaksinë e Inside Story. ‘Jam dënuar me 32 vite dhe kam bërë gati 10 vite deri tani. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":50032,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[569],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-50031","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-bota"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50031","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=50031"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50031\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":50033,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50031\/revisions\/50033"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/50032"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=50031"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=50031"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=50031"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}