{"id":43446,"date":"2025-09-12T17:26:49","date_gmt":"2025-09-12T17:26:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/?p=43446"},"modified":"2025-09-12T17:26:49","modified_gmt":"2025-09-12T17:26:49","slug":"shtate-gjera-qe-femijet-e-kane-me-te-veshtire-ti-falin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=43446","title":{"rendered":"Shtat\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e kan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i falin"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"681\" src=\"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/IMG_2555-1024x681.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-43447\" srcset=\"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/IMG_2555-1024x681.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/IMG_2555-300x199.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/IMG_2555-768x511.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/IMG_2555.jpeg 1125w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia midis prind\u00ebrve dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve bazohet n\u00eb dashuri dhe besim, por ka veprime q\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb gjurm\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr t\u2019u harruar nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb tilla form\u00ebsojn\u00eb emocionet e tyre dhe shpesh i shoq\u00ebrojn\u00eb ato nd\u00ebrsa rriten, dhe shpesh n\u00eb mosh\u00eb madhore. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb njihen se cilat situata mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr t\u2019u falur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Mungesa e v\u00ebmendjes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e kan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb falin kur ndihen t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore. N\u00ebse prind\u00ebrit nuk gjejn\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur, p\u00ebr t\u00eb luajtur ose thjesht p\u00ebr t\u2019u afruar, t\u00eb vegjlit e p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb si nj\u00eb refuzim q\u00eb mbetet me ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kritika dhe n\u00ebn\u00e7mimi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u00ebshilltar\u00ebt dhe terapist\u00ebt edukativ\u00eb theksojn\u00eb se fjal\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb fuqishme dhe se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt i mbajn\u00eb mend kritikat shum\u00eb m\u00eb gjat\u00eb sesa mendojn\u00eb prind\u00ebrit. Kur ata ndihen vazhdimisht m\u00eb pak t\u00eb denj\u00eb, kjo ua shkat\u00ebrron vet\u00ebbesimin dhe ua v\u00ebshtir\u00ebson lidhjen me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt m\u00eb von\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Premtime t\u00eb jo realizuara<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kur prind\u00ebrit japin nj\u00eb premtim dhe nuk e mbajn\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb at\u00eb si tradhti. Edhe gj\u00ebrat e vogla, si nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim i premtuar n\u00eb park, mbeten thell\u00eb t\u00eb ngulitura n\u00eb mendjet e tyre dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira p\u00ebr t\u2019u harruar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Krahasimi i vetes me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sipas terapist\u00ebve t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm, krahasimet me v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e motrat ose bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebt u d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve mesazhin se nuk jan\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm t\u00eb mir\u00eb. P\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb tilla krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsie dhe pasoja afatgjata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Rrept\u00ebsia e tep\u00ebrt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e kan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb falin kur ndiejn\u00eb se jan\u00eb nd\u00ebshkuar padrejt\u00ebsisht ose shum\u00eb ashp\u00ebr. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb nga gabimet e tyre, ata ndiejn\u00eb vet\u00ebm frik\u00eb, turp dhe zem\u00ebrim ndaj prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Mungesa e mb\u00ebshtetjes<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ekspert\u00ebt theksojn\u00eb se mb\u00ebshtetja prind\u00ebrore \u00ebsht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore p\u00ebr zhvillimin e siguris\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebbesimit. Kur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk ka kujt t\u2019i drejtohet p\u00ebr ngush\u00ebllim ose ndihm\u00eb, e t\u00ebra q\u00eb mbetet \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb boshll\u00ebku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Refuzimi i emocioneve<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e kan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb kur emocionet e tyre nuk pranohen. N\u00ebse u thuhet se po e ekzagjerojn\u00eb, se jan\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm ose se nuk kan\u00eb arsye t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb trishtuar, ata ndihen t\u00eb keqkuptuar dhe t\u00eb vetmuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Edhe pse prind\u00ebrimi \u00ebsht\u00eb plot sfida, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb mbani mend se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt i mbajn\u00eb mend veprimet po aq sa fjal\u00ebt. Respekti, v\u00ebmendja dhe mb\u00ebshtetja jan\u00eb themeli i marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve q\u00eb zgjasin nj\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marr&euml;dh&euml;nia midis prind&euml;rve dhe f&euml;mij&euml;ve bazohet n&euml; dashuri dhe besim, por ka veprime q&euml; l&euml;n&euml; nj&euml; gjurm&euml; t&euml; thell&euml; dhe jan&euml; t&euml; v&euml;shtira p&euml;r t&rsquo;u harruar nga f&euml;mij&euml;t. P&euml;rvoja t&euml; tilla form&euml;sojn&euml; emocionet e tyre dhe shpesh i shoq&euml;rojn&euml; ato nd&euml;rsa rriten, dhe shpesh n&euml; mosh&euml; madhore. Kjo &euml;sht&euml; arsyeja pse &euml;sht&euml; e r&euml;nd&euml;sishme t&euml; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":43447,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[573],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43446","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43446","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43446"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43446\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43448,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43446\/revisions\/43448"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/43447"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43446"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43446"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43446"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}