{"id":43353,"date":"2025-09-10T08:57:59","date_gmt":"2025-09-10T08:57:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/?p=43353"},"modified":"2025-09-10T08:58:00","modified_gmt":"2025-09-10T08:58:00","slug":"selvija-thyen-akullin-per-ndarjen-nga-shpati-flet-per-tradhtine-e-tmerrshme-dhe-thote-se-atij-i-interesonte-vec-vetja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=43353","title":{"rendered":"Selvija thyen akullin p\u00ebr ndarjen nga Shpati, flet p\u00ebr tradhtin\u00eb e tmerrshme dhe thot\u00eb se atij i interesonte ve\u00e7 vetja"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Selvije Jao, ish-bashk\u00ebshortja e k\u00ebng\u00ebtarit t\u00eb njohur shqiptar Shpat Kasapi, \u00ebsht\u00eb rikthyer s\u00ebrish n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes publike dhe mediave roz\u00eb, pas nj\u00eb deklarate t\u00eb fort\u00eb dhe t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet sociale. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj, kur ende ndodhet n\u00eb procesin e p\u00ebrballimit emocional pas ndarjes nga Kasapi, Selvije ka vendosur t\u00eb flas\u00eb hapur rreth temave t\u00eb ndjeshme q\u00eb prekin thell\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet n\u00eb \u00e7ift \u2014 me nj\u00eb theks t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb mbi konceptin e tradhtis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb sesioni pyetje-p\u00ebrgjigje me ndjek\u00ebsit e saj n\u00eb Instagram, nj\u00eb ndjek\u00ebs i drejtoi nj\u00eb pyetje mjaft delikate: \u201cA duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb tradhtia arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos e falur nj\u00eb person, apo ekzistojn\u00eb edhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb mund ta prishin nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo pyetje, q\u00eb n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste ka nxitur debat n\u00eb opinionin publik dhe shpesh ka ndar\u00eb njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb q\u00ebndrime t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta, u b\u00eb shkak q\u00eb Selvije t\u00eb shprehej me nj\u00eb sinqeritet t\u00eb papritur dhe t\u00eb ndante nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim q\u00eb shkon p\u00ebrtej asaj q\u00eb zakonisht kuptohet me \u201ctradhti\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ajo nuk ngurroi asnj\u00eb \u00e7ast p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje t\u00eb thell\u00eb, t\u00eb menduar dhe mjaft personale. N\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb fokusohej vet\u00ebm te tradhtia n\u00eb kuptimin klasik \u2014 si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo fizike ose emocionale me nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr \u2014 Selvije solli n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje nj\u00eb dimension tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj teme: pap\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb brenda nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje dhe munges\u00ebn e p\u00ebrkushtimit ndaj partnerit dhe familjes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cKa shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb mos e fal\u00ebsh nj\u00eb person,\u201d u shpreh ajo me nj\u00eb ton serioz dhe t\u00eb menduar. \u201cKa partner\u00eb q\u00eb thjesht duan t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb familje, por pa marr\u00eb asnj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. Disa duan t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb mir\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta neglizhuar m\u00eb von\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb duan f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb dashuri e kujdes, thjesht p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb fotografi dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar imazhin e nj\u00eb familjeje t\u00eb lumtur, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb nuk japin asgj\u00eb nga vetja as p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e as p\u00ebr bashk\u00ebshorten.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo deklarat\u00eb, q\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00ebk\u00ebnd ting\u00ebllon si nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim personal i mb\u00ebshtjell\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsime t\u00eb sinqerta, u p\u00ebrjetua nga ndjek\u00ebsit si nj\u00eb d\u00ebshmi e dhimbjes s\u00eb akumuluar, por edhe si nj\u00eb reflektim i pjekur mbi at\u00eb q\u00eb realisht mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrroj\u00eb nj\u00eb martes\u00eb apo nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb vijim t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjes s\u00eb saj, Selvije e cil\u00ebsoi k\u00ebt\u00eb sjellje \u2014 t\u00eb mosmarrjes s\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb brenda nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieje dhe t\u00eb mosangazhimit n\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb ndaj partnerit apo f\u00ebmij\u00ebs \u2014 si nj\u00eb form\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjimi, q\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e dhimbshme se \u00e7do tradhti fizike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cUn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb e quaj tradhti, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe se tradhtia klasike. Nuk ka tradhti m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe sesa t\u00eb hysh n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pa p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi dhe t\u00eb t\u00eb interesoj\u00eb vet\u00ebm vetja jote\u201d, deklaroi Selvije, duke e mbyllur komentin me nj\u00eb reflektim t\u00eb fort\u00eb emocional, q\u00eb shum\u00eb gra mund ta ndjejn\u00eb si nj\u00eb jehon\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrvojave t\u00eb tyre personale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deklarata e saj ka marr\u00eb jehon\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb n\u00eb rrjete sociale dhe media, ku p\u00ebrdorues t\u00eb shumt\u00eb kan\u00eb reaguar \u2014 disa duke e mb\u00ebshtetur p\u00ebr guximin dhe sinqeritetin, t\u00eb tjer\u00eb duke e konsideruar k\u00ebt\u00eb si nj\u00eb thumb ndaj ish-partnerit t\u00eb saj, Shpat Kasapi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pavar\u00ebsisht q\u00ebllimit t\u00eb saj, nj\u00eb gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt: fjala e Selvijes ka prekur nj\u00eb nerv t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare, ku tema si p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia n\u00eb \u00e7ift, roli i burrit dhe gruas n\u00eb familje, dhe imazhi i rrem\u00eb i \u201cfamiljes s\u00eb lumtur\u201d shpesh fshihen n\u00ebn petkun e fasadave n\u00eb rrjetet sociale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rr\u00ebfimi i saj vjen n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment kur vet\u00eb Selvije ndodhet n\u00eb nj\u00eb faz\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb emocionale, pas ndarjes nga Kasapi \u2014 nj\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb fillimisht u perceptua si nj\u00eb histori dashurie e bukur dhe premtuese, por q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoi n\u00eb ndarje pa shum\u00eb shpjegime publike. Kjo heshtje kishte l\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb hap\u00ebsira p\u00ebr spekulime, t\u00eb cilat tani, p\u00ebrmes k\u00ebsaj deklarate, duket se marrin nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dimension.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Selvije, me tonin e saj t\u00eb prer\u00eb, por t\u00eb matur, i \u00ebsht\u00eb drejtuar jo vet\u00ebm ndjek\u00ebsve t\u00eb saj, por edhe t\u00eb gjitha grave q\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb l\u00ebna pas dore n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie q\u00eb n\u00eb pamje t\u00eb par\u00eb duken \u201cnormale\u201d apo t\u00eb suksesshme. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ajo ka risjell\u00eb n\u00eb fokus nj\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb heshtur: q\u00eb tradhtia nuk ka vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb form\u00eb, dhe jo gjithmon\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb duket n\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe m\u00eb e r\u00ebnda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebrfundimisht, Selvije Jao ka arritur q\u00eb p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjeje t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb pyet\u00ebsor virtual t\u00eb ndez\u00eb nj\u00eb debat m\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb mbi natyr\u00ebn e dashuris\u00eb, p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe ndershm\u00ebris\u00eb n\u00eb \u00e7ift \u2014 duke e vendosur veten jo vet\u00ebm si nj\u00eb figur\u00eb publike q\u00eb flet p\u00ebr veten, por edhe si nj\u00eb z\u00eb q\u00eb sfidon konceptet tradicionale t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb shqiptare moderne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Selvije Jao, ish-bashkëshortja e këngëtarit të njohur shqiptar Shpat Kasapi, është rikthyer sërish në qendër të vëmendjes publike dhe mediave rozë, pas një deklarate të fortë dhe të drejtpërdrejtë në rrjetet sociale.  Në një moment të ndjeshëm të jetës së saj, kur ende ndodhet në procesin e përballimit emocional pas ndarjes nga Kasapi, Selvije ka […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":43354,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43353","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-showbizz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43353","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43353"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43353\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43355,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43353\/revisions\/43355"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/43354"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43353"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43353"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43353"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}