{"id":41413,"date":"2025-03-04T15:31:30","date_gmt":"2025-03-04T15:31:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/?p=41413"},"modified":"2025-03-04T15:31:30","modified_gmt":"2025-03-04T15:31:30","slug":"femijet-e-llastuar-i-bejne-keto-pese-gjera","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=41413","title":{"rendered":"F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e llastuar i b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebto pes\u00eb gj\u00ebra"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/femijet-e-lastuar-1024x1024-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-41414\" srcset=\"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/femijet-e-lastuar-1024x1024-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/femijet-e-lastuar-1024x1024-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/femijet-e-lastuar-1024x1024-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/femijet-e-lastuar-1024x1024-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/03\/femijet-e-lastuar-1024x1024-1-250x250.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur mendojm\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e llastuar, shum\u00eb prej nesh mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebr zem\u00ebrim apo refuzim p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur rregullat. Megjithat\u00eb, sjellja e llastuar nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e ndjenj\u00ebs s\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs ose k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb prind\u00ebrore; shoq\u00ebrohet me nevoja emocionale t\u00eb paplot\u00ebsuara, kufij t\u00eb paq\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm dhe munges\u00eb lidhjeje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Si nj\u00eb trajnere e kujdesshme prind\u00ebrore, Reem Raouda ka studiuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 200 f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe ka zbuluar se sjellja e llastuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb tregon nevoja t\u00eb paplot\u00ebsuara. K\u00ebtu jan\u00eb pes\u00eb shenjat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u201cjasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb llastuar\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat ajo paralajm\u00ebroi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ata e kan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb \u201cjo\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb mund t\u2019i refuzoj\u00eb rregullat jo sepse ato jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, por sepse i shohin kufijt\u00eb e qart\u00eb konfuz\u00eb dhe zhg\u00ebnjyes. N\u00ebse rregullat duken t\u00eb paparashikueshme ose n\u00ebse nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb mendon se nuk ka fuqi mbi vendimet q\u00eb i prekin, ai mund t\u00eb sillet keq p\u00ebr t\u00eb rifituar nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb kontrolli, shkruan Index.hr, transmeton Klankosova.tv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ata vazhdimisht k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt vazhdimisht k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje, kjo shpesh tregon distanc\u00eb emocionale ose pasiguri p\u00ebr vendin e tyre n\u00eb familje. Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb nuk ndihet i sigurt mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb: m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb, m\u00eb shum\u00eb afirmim, m\u00eb shum\u00eb rehati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ata hedhin zem\u00ebrim p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb duan<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Shp\u00ebrthimet e zem\u00ebrimit apo zem\u00ebrimi nuk jan\u00eb manipulim, ato jan\u00eb nj\u00eb thirrje p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb. F\u00ebmij\u00ebt e zem\u00ebruar zakonisht jan\u00eb t\u00eb mbingarkuar dhe u mungojn\u00eb aft\u00ebsit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrpunuar emocione t\u00eb m\u00ebdha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ata i rezistojn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsis\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb refuzon t\u00eb pastroj\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb detyrat e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb ose t\u00eb dor\u00ebzohet leht\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb problematik apo dembel. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ai mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb shum\u00eb shpesh i mbrojtur nga sfida ose, anasjelltas, \u00ebsht\u00eb shtyr\u00eb drejt pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb ishte gati.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Atyre u mungon mir\u00ebnjohja<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb sillet mosmir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs sepse nuk mori at\u00eb q\u00eb donte, shpesh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb e t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs. Mund t\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptoj\u00eb se ai ndihet i pad\u00ebgjuar ose i pafuqish\u00ebm. Dhe kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebve u jepen vazhdimisht lodra, trajtime ose shp\u00ebrblime n\u00eb vend t\u00eb lidhjes emocionale, kjo zvog\u00eblon aft\u00ebsin\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar at\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cGjithmon\u00eb u kujtoj prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb t\u00eb shmangin shp\u00ebrblimin e tep\u00ebrt t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse ata ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb pastrimin e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u2019u jepni para ose karamele, ju mund t\u00eb thoni: \u201cFaleminderit q\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmoni. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr mua dhe u arg\u00ebtova duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb s\u00eb bashku.\u201d \u201cQ\u00ebllimi \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebjm\u00eb ato momente kuptimplote, jo vet\u00ebm di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr shp\u00ebrblim,\u201d thekson Raouda.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kur mendojm&euml; p&euml;r f&euml;mij&euml;t e llastuar, shum&euml; prej nesh mendojn&euml; p&euml;r zem&euml;rim apo refuzim p&euml;r t&euml; ndjekur rregullat. Megjithat&euml;, sjellja e llastuar nuk &euml;sht&euml; vet&euml;m nj&euml; &ccedil;&euml;shtje e ndjenj&euml;s s&euml; t&euml; drejt&euml;s ose k&euml;naq&euml;sis&euml; prind&euml;rore; shoq&euml;rohet me nevoja emocionale t&euml; paplot&euml;suara, kufij t&euml; paq&euml;ndruesh&euml;m dhe munges&euml; lidhjeje. Si nj&euml; trajnere e kujdesshme prind&euml;rore, Reem Raouda [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":41414,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[573],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41413","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=41413"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41413\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":41416,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/41413\/revisions\/41416"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/41414"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=41413"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=41413"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=41413"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}