{"id":40453,"date":"2025-01-25T14:01:30","date_gmt":"2025-01-25T14:01:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/?p=40453"},"modified":"2025-01-25T14:01:31","modified_gmt":"2025-01-25T14:01:31","slug":"dashuria-e-nenes-dashuria-e-pakushtezuar-dhe-e-perjetshme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=40453","title":{"rendered":"Dashuria e n\u00ebn\u00ebs: dashuria e pakusht\u00ebzuar dhe e p\u00ebrjetshme"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Nga t\u00eb gjitha llojet e dashuris\u00eb, m\u00eb e fuqishmja \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria e nj\u00eb n\u00ebne. Dashuria mes n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs lind n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, si nj\u00eb lidhje q\u00eb bashkon dy trupa dhe dy shpirtra. Dashuria e n\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakusht\u00ebzuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kur thon\u00eb se natyra \u00ebsht\u00eb e men\u00e7ur, i referohen, nd\u00ebr t\u00eb tjera, bashkimit q\u00eb krijohet midis n\u00ebnave dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Instinkti mbrojt\u00ebs i n\u00ebn\u00ebs lind kur zbulon se \u00ebsht\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe vazhdon p\u00ebr 9 muaj me radh\u00eb, gjat\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebve dhe pse nuk e sheh f\u00ebmij\u00ebn e vet, ndjen se \u00ebsht\u00eb thesari m\u00eb i \u00e7muar n\u00eb bot\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb e sigurt se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb mbijetojn\u00eb. Dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse lindim me aft\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zbatuar disa strategji ose \u201ctruke\u201d q\u00eb na ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb sigurohemi q\u00eb t\u00eb rriturit rreth nesh duan t\u00eb na mbrojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr ne, si n\u00eb rastin e buz\u00ebqeshjeve shoq\u00ebrore. Por nuk ka asnj\u00eb lidhje me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien me n\u00ebn\u00ebn, pasi kjo e fundit shkon p\u00ebrtej instinktit t\u00eb mbijetes\u00ebs s\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e sh\u00ebndetshme e bazuar n\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb pakusht\u00ebzuar, afeksion dhe respekt ndihmon p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i lumtur do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb i rritur i lumtur<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ebna dhe f\u00ebmija krijojn\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb fort\u00eb, nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie q\u00eb do t\u2019i sh\u00ebnoj\u00eb si n\u00eb jet\u00eb ashtu edhe n\u00eb \u00e7do p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia me figur\u00ebn e n\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi vitale, sepse ndikon n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn ton\u00eb t\u00eb lidhjes me njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00ebnat ofrojn\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb pakusht\u00ebzuar, e cila nuk varet nga rrethanat ose karakteristikat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs. Dhe ndodh q\u00eb, si f\u00ebmij\u00eb, ne gjithmon\u00eb largohemi me dashurin\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetshme t\u00eb n\u00ebnave tona, pa pasur nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb kalojm\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb pushtimi. Ne nuk duhet ta fitojm\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e nj\u00eb n\u00ebne, dhe kjo na jep shum\u00eb m\u00eb tep\u00ebr besim tek vetja. Sepse na jep at\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb meritojm\u00eb t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb dashur p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb jemi, jo p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSi mund ta doni aq shum\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb akoma nuk e njihni, dik\u00eb kaq t\u00eb vog\u00ebl?\u201d Kjo ndodh p\u00ebr shkak se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e juaja, sepse mbush me but\u00ebsi dhe brisht\u00ebsi nj\u00eb zbraz\u00ebti q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb ishte e panjohur. Sepse kur b\u00ebhesh n\u00ebn\u00eb, mund t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh an\u00ebn e saj plot forc\u00eb dhe q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e gatshme t\u00eb l\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i ofruar gjith\u00e7ka f\u00ebmij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dashuria e n\u00ebn\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetshme<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Si mekaniz\u00ebm biologjik \u00ebsht\u00eb themelor. F\u00ebmija nuk mund t\u00eb rritet vet\u00eb, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ai ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb qenie njer\u00ebzore t\u00eb rritur q\u00eb e ushqen, i jep mbrojtje dhe kujdeset p\u00ebr t\u00eb derisa t\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballet vet\u00eb me jet\u00ebn. Por a shkon p\u00ebrtej k\u00ebsaj lidhja mes n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebs? Ka hulumtime q\u00eb pohojn\u00eb p\u00ebr ndryshime reale n\u00eb trurin e n\u00ebn\u00ebs, si nj\u00eb mekaniz\u00ebm themelor i am\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mitologjia dhe feja kan\u00eb shum\u00eb referenca p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb e pakusht\u00ebzuar t\u00eb n\u00ebnave p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre ose fuqin\u00eb e am\u00ebsis\u00eb. Ashtu si n\u00eb rastin e Demeter, per\u00ebndesh\u00eb e bujq\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u00eb mitologjin\u00eb greke, e cila, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb rr\u00ebmbimit t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb saj Persefon\u00eb, nxori mitin e ndryshimit t\u00eb sezonit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo lidhje e ngusht\u00eb njihet p\u00ebr paaft\u00ebsin\u00eb e saj p\u00ebr t\u2019u shkat\u00ebrruar dhe p\u00ebr forc\u00ebn q\u00eb ofron p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb e ndajn\u00eb at\u00eb. Mbrojtja q\u00eb na ofron kjo dashuri e pakusht\u00ebzuar na ndihmon t\u00eb rritemi me nj\u00eb \u201crrjet sigurie\u201d emocionale. Nj\u00eb rrjet q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet at\u00eb q\u00eb jemi, duke na shtyr\u00eb drejt s\u00eb ardhmes dhe duke na dh\u00ebn\u00eb siguri.\/botasot.info\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga të gjitha llojet e dashurisë, më e fuqishmja është dashuria e një nëne. Dashuria mes nënës dhe fëmijës lind në një çast, si një lidhje që bashkon dy trupa dhe dy shpirtra. Dashuria e nënës është e pakushtëzuar, është e përjetshme. Kur thonë se natyra është e mençur, i referohen, ndër të tjera, bashkimit […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":40454,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[573],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40453","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40453","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=40453"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40453\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40455,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40453\/revisions\/40455"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/40454"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=40453"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=40453"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=40453"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}