{"id":38246,"date":"2024-11-30T00:11:46","date_gmt":"2024-11-30T00:11:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/?p=38246"},"modified":"2024-11-30T00:11:47","modified_gmt":"2024-11-30T00:11:47","slug":"pese-keshilla-te-lashta-nga-sun-tzu-qe-mund-tju-ndihmojne-te-kaperceni-konfliktet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=38246","title":{"rendered":"Pes\u00eb k\u00ebshilla t\u00eb lashta nga Sun Tzu, q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb kap\u00ebrceni konfliktet"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Pak libra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb mund t\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb ndikim aq t\u00eb madh n\u00eb historin\u00eb e luft\u00ebs sa \u201cArti i Luft\u00ebs\u201d i Sun Tzu. I shkruar n\u00eb Kin\u00eb rreth 2500 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, ky traktat ushtarak themeloi nj\u00eb ideologji t\u00eb luft\u00ebs q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte jehon\u00eb deri n\u00eb Revolucionin Komunist t\u00eb MaoCe Dunit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Duke u p\u00ebrhapur n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb Azin\u00eb Lindore, ai udh\u00ebhoqi shtres\u00ebn e luft\u00ebtar\u00ebve t\u00eb Japonis\u00eb gjat\u00eb epok\u00ebs s\u00eb saj t\u00eb dominuar nga lufta dhe diktoi taktikat e ushtar\u00ebve vietkong\u00eb n\u00eb Vietnam. Sot libri \u201cArti i Luft\u00ebs\u201d studiohet n\u00eb akademit\u00eb ushtarake n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn. Kjo vep\u00ebr mbetet ende e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, pasi autori i tij e njohu konfliktin si nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb universale t\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ai nuk u mjaftua vet\u00ebm me rishikimin e taktikave t\u00eb betejave t\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. Ai u p\u00ebrpoq t\u00eb eksploronte psikologjin\u00eb e luft\u00ebs dhe se si ne mund ta shfryt\u00ebzonim at\u00eb me men\u00e7uri. Trajneri brazilian Luiz Felipe Scolari e ka p\u00ebrmendur shpeshher\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb lib\u00ebr si frym\u00ebzim p\u00ebr taktikat q\u00eb p\u00ebrdori p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar Kup\u00ebn e Bot\u00ebs 2002.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u00ebshillat e tij jan\u00eb zbatuar n\u00eb fusha shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjera duke nisur nga politika, menaxhimi i biznesit dhe madje edhe sportet. Ja cilat jan\u00eb 5 citate t\u00eb Sun Tzu q\u00eb mund t\u2019ju ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb kap\u00ebrceni strategjikisht konfliktin kudo q\u00eb mund ta hasni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Ata q\u00eb fitojn\u00eb \u00e7do betej\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb aft\u00eb. Ata q\u00eb i b\u00ebjn\u00eb ushtrit\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve t\u00eb pafuqishme pa luftuar jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt nga t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebr t\u00eb, fitorja m\u00eb e madhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mposhtja e kund\u00ebrshtarit p\u00ebrmes forc\u00ebs, zgjuarsis\u00eb apo forc\u00ebs s\u00eb vullnetit. Ajo ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me shmangien e plot\u00eb t\u00eb betej\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb person i men\u00e7ur, thot\u00eb Sun Tzu, ka aft\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe men\u00e7urin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur nj\u00eb konflikt p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb filloj\u00eb. P\u00ebr shembull, nj\u00eb diplomat i men\u00e7ur mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb q\u00eb dy kombe t\u00eb zgjidhin nj\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshje p\u00ebr tok\u00ebn p\u00ebrpara p\u00ebrshkall\u00ebzimit t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm. N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme, nj\u00eb mik i men\u00e7ur di t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00eb humorin p\u00ebr t\u00eb leht\u00ebsuar tensionet p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb shp\u00ebrthej\u00eb nj\u00eb debat. N\u00eb t\u00eb dyja rastet, fitorja gjendet n\u00eb munges\u00ebn e konfliktit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. N\u00ebse i njihni t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe veten, nuk do t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb rrezikuar as n\u00eb 100 beteja. Por n\u00ebse nuk i njeh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, por njeh veten, do t\u00eb fitosh nj\u00eb betej\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb humb\u00ebsh nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. N\u00ebse nuk i njeh t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe nuk e njeh as veten, do t\u00eb jesh i rrezikuar t\u00eb humb\u00ebsh n\u00eb \u00e7do betej\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sipas tij, njer\u00ebzit emocionalisht inteligjent\u00eb kan\u00eb vet\u00ebdijen p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar motivet e tyre, p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur synimet e tyre dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb rregulluar emocionet. Duke e njohur veten, ata nuk fillojn\u00eb konflikte t\u00eb panevojshme, dhe as nuk lejojn\u00eb q\u00eb emocionet negative t\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb n\u00eb shp\u00ebrthime ose veprime t\u00eb pamenduara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb ngjashme, ata mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin inteligjenc\u00ebn e tyre emocionale p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvilluar vet\u00ebdijen sociale. Nj\u00eb aft\u00ebsi e till\u00eb i ndihmon ata t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb motivimet dhe emocionet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve p\u00ebrmes dhembshuris\u00eb dhe simpatis\u00eb. Kjo njohuri mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb parandalimin e konflikteve pasi personi emocionalisht inteligjent do t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb kushte q\u00eb i b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb mos d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb nj\u00eb grindje me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gjithsesi edhe n\u00ebse lind nj\u00eb konflikt, inteligjenca emocionale mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb n\u00eb krijimin e situatave q\u00eb i japin fund nevoj\u00ebs p\u00ebr grindje tek personi tjet\u00ebr. Tek libri i tij, Sun Tzu rendit pes\u00eb tipare t\u00eb rrezikshme q\u00eb mjegullojn\u00eb gjykimin e gjeneral\u00ebve dhe i \u00e7ojn\u00eb ata n\u00eb konflikte t\u00eb panevojshme. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb zem\u00ebrimi, lakmia, krenaria, pamaturia dhe t\u00eb qenit m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa duhet mbrojt\u00ebs ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. K\u00ebto tipare, thot\u00eb ai, sjellin fatkeq\u00ebsi. Sot mund t\u00eb themi se ato e pengojn\u00eb inteligjenc\u00ebn emocionale dhe prishin qet\u00ebsin\u00eb ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Pamposhtshm\u00ebria q\u00ebndron tek vetja jon\u00eb, c\u00ebnueshm\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb tek kund\u00ebrshtari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kjo k\u00ebshill\u00eb pasqyron pik\u00ebpamjen stoike t\u00eb kontrollit. Ju nuk mund t\u00eb kontrolloni se si sillet dikush tjet\u00ebr; por mundeni t\u00eb dalloni sjelljen e tyre. Megjithat\u00eb, ju keni kontroll mbi veprimet tuaja, gj\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatiteni p\u00ebr konflikt dhe t\u00eb forconi mbrojtjen tuaj p\u00ebrpara veprimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb luft\u00eb, p\u00ebrgatitje t\u00eb tilla mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb mbajtjen e moralit lart, t\u00eb kuptuarit e vler\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb terreni t\u00eb caktuar dhe mbajtjen e nj\u00eb zinxhiri t\u00eb fort\u00eb komandimi. N\u00eb strategjin\u00eb e biznesit, mund t\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptoj\u00eb forcimin e partneriteteve, gatishm\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u distancuar nga nj\u00eb vendim i keq, apo pun\u00ebsimin dhe zhvillimin e talenteve m\u00eb t\u00eb mira. N\u00eb nivelin personal, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshij\u00eb zhvillimin e besimit, zot\u00ebrimit t\u00eb vetvetes dhe vet\u00eb-efikasitetit p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur veten dhe besimet tona.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. P\u00ebrdor rendin p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur me kaosin, p\u00ebrdor qet\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur me zhurm\u00ebn<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7rregullimi dhe zhurma e mjegullojn\u00eb vet\u00ebdijen ton\u00eb mbi situat\u00ebn, i ngacmojn\u00eb emocionet tona negative dhe na shtyjn\u00eb t\u00eb marrim vendime t\u00eb k\u00ebqija thjesht p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka. Pra \u00e7do gj\u00eb, mjafton t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb ndryshim. Por kjo e b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mundsh\u00ebm konfliktin dhe kur ndodh, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb problematik p\u00ebr t\u2019u menaxhuar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mjerisht q\u00eb t\u00eb dyja jan\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn moderne. Nd\u00ebrsa ne mund t\u00eb mos kemi shum\u00eb ndikim mbi kaosin dhe \u00e7rregullimin n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e jashtme, ne mund ta zgjidhim zhurm\u00ebn nga brenda. Pasi konflikti b\u00ebhet i pashmangsh\u00ebm, ne nuk duhet ta l\u00ebm\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb na shqet\u00ebsoj\u00eb apo ta shohim si nj\u00eb mjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkuar nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitimin ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, ne duhet t\u00eb vendosim ta zgjidhim at\u00eb, t\u00eb minimizojm\u00eb d\u00ebmet dhe t\u00eb ruajm\u00eb qet\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb sfidave t\u00eb tij. Kjo k\u00ebrkon jo vet\u00ebm shmangien e 5 tipareve q\u00eb p\u00ebrmend SunTzu \u2013 zem\u00ebrimin, lakmin\u00eb, krenarin\u00eb, pamaturin\u00eb dhe mbrojtjen e tepruar \u2013 por edhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb t\u2019i p\u00ebrshtatim p\u00ebrgjigjet tona nd\u00ebrsa zhvillohet konflikti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Konsideratat e nj\u00eb njeriu inteligjent p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimin dhe d\u00ebmin. Nd\u00ebrsa ata mendojn\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimin, puna e tyre mund t\u00eb zgjerohet. Kur mendojn\u00eb d\u00ebmin, mund t\u00eb zgjidhen problemet e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb prag t\u00eb nj\u00eb konfliktit, d\u00ebshira p\u00ebr p\u00ebrfitime mund t\u00eb na nxit\u00eb t\u00eb veprojm\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb agresive. K\u00ebto mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb p\u00ebrfitime materiale, nd\u00ebshkimi emocional i t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve apo rritje e fuqis\u00eb son\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore. Sido q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb, ndjekja e nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfitimi t\u00eb perceptuar mund t\u00eb na b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb harrojm\u00eb d\u00ebmin e mundsh\u00ebm q\u00eb mund t\u00eb sjell\u00eb agresioni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ne mund t\u00eb largohemi nga konfliktet e nevojshme n\u00ebse mendojm\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr d\u00ebmet e mundshme. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj, Sun Tzu rekomandon q\u00eb t\u2019i marrim parasysh t\u00eb dyja ve\u00e7mas. Duke i njohur p\u00ebrfitimet dhe duke planifikuar p\u00ebr to, ne i b\u00ebjm\u00eb ato m\u00eb t\u00eb mundshme. Anasjelltas, duke paramenduar se \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb keq dhe d\u00ebmet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb lindin edhe n\u00ebse kemi sukses, ne mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrim hapa p\u00ebr t\u2019u mbrojtur kund\u00ebr tyre. \/ \u201cBig Think\u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pak libra të tjerë mund të pretendojnë të kenë një ndikim aq të madh në historinë e luftës sa “Arti i Luftës” i Sun Tzu. I shkruar në Kinë rreth 2500 vjet më parë, ky traktat ushtarak themeloi një ideologji të luftës që do të bënte jehonë deri në Revolucionin Komunist të MaoCe Dunit. Duke u përhapur në të […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":38247,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[573],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38246","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38246","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=38246"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38246\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38249,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38246\/revisions\/38249"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/38247"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=38246"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=38246"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=38246"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}