{"id":37869,"date":"2024-11-24T17:23:28","date_gmt":"2024-11-24T17:23:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/?p=37869"},"modified":"2024-11-24T17:23:28","modified_gmt":"2024-11-24T17:23:28","slug":"psikologia-fjala-e-vetme-qe-prinderit-duhet-tu-thone-femijeve-qe-ata-te-flasin-hapur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=37869","title":{"rendered":"Psikologia: Fjala e vetme q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u2019u thon\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, q\u00eb ata t\u00eb flasin hapur"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Prind\u00ebrit mund t\u00eb lexojn\u00eb \u00e7do manual dhe artikull k\u00ebshillash atje, duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb sjelljen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre dhe t\u2019i afrohen m\u00eb shum\u00eb . Por ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb qasja m\u00eb e fuqishme \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht t\u00eb qenit pran\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh nevojat e tyre. T\u00eb jesh aty p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb efektive, pa shikime dhe kritika.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr. Becky Kennedy, psikologe dhe themeluese e sh\u00ebrbimit online t\u00eb k\u00ebshillimit t\u00eb prind\u00ebrve Good Inside, thekson se supozimi i m\u00ebsip\u00ebrm \u00ebsht\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe zbulon fjalin\u00eb e vetme q\u00eb prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u2019u thon\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ata t\u00eb ndihen gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb sigurt kur u drejtohen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb, ajo ndau \u201clinj\u00ebn q\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb \u00e7do prind n\u00eb kutin\u00eb e veglave t\u00eb tyre\u201d. Kur f\u00ebmija juaj ju hapet p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn po ndjen ose po lufton, eksperti k\u00ebshillon prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen me: \u201cJam shum\u00eb i lumtur q\u00eb po m\u00eb flisni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fal\u00ebnderimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs suaj q\u00eb ka guximin t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme me ju, do t\u2019i ndihmoj\u00eb ata t\u00eb ndihen m\u00eb rehat t\u00eb vijn\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri tek ju n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThuajani k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs menj\u00ebher\u00eb kur ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i stresuar, i zem\u00ebruar, i m\u00ebrzitur, i turp\u00ebruar ose ndjen ndonj\u00eb emocion shqet\u00ebsues q\u00eb ju nuk e njihni menj\u00ebher\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

R\u00ebnd\u00ebsia e v\u00ebrtetimit t\u00eb ndjenjave t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs
\u201cKur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt na hapen, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl \u2013 p\u00ebr munges\u00ebn e miqve, ndjenj\u00ebn e zem\u00ebrimit apo di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb \u2013 \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si ne p\u00ebrgjigjemi ajo q\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u201d, ka shkruar Kennedy n\u00eb videon e saj n\u00eb TikTok.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cP\u00ebr shkak se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb nuk e perceptojn\u00eb nd\u00ebrveprimin me prind\u00ebrit e tyre si \u201cvet\u00ebm duke folur\u201d, ata mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb duke formuar nj\u00eb model tjet\u00ebr bisede n\u00eb mendjet e tyre dhe duke krijuar skenar\u00eb se si do t\u00eb reagojn\u00eb dhe si do t\u00eb ndihen m\u00eb pas. Vleresimi nuk do te thote qe jeni dakord me gjithcka ose miratoni sjelljet negative, por perkundrazi qe i degjoni dhe u tregoni se ndjenjat e tyre jane te vlefshme dhe te pranuara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetojn\u00eb ndjenjat e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre duhet s\u00eb pari t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtaten me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ndihen dhe m\u00eb pas ta ndihmojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn t\u00eb em\u00ebroj\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb ndjen dhe ta pranoj\u00eb at\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb. Pyetjet e hapura do t\u00eb ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb gjetjen e fjal\u00ebve t\u00eb duhura. Mos harroni t\u00eb fal\u00ebnderoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj q\u00eb erdh\u00ebn tek ju. Kujtojuni se i d\u00ebgjoni dhe se nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Sigurojini ata se ndjenjat e tyre jan\u00eb normale dhe kan\u00eb kuptim.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00ebmij\u00ebt kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr komunitet kur nuk jan\u00eb rehat
Disa njer\u00ebz izolohen kur p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb ose t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme. Shpesh, kjo sjellje vjen nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria. p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb v\u00ebrtetimit nga prind\u00ebrit e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201c Kur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb vjen te prindi i tij me nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb ndjeshme, gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb prind \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i siguroj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalje q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet i sigurt dhe i mb\u00ebshtetur. Kur prind\u00ebrit e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb, ata hapin der\u00ebn p\u00ebr komunikimin e ardhsh\u00ebm me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre dhe u m\u00ebsojn\u00eb atyre r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e gjetjes s\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjes nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ky pranim \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt e gjejn\u00eb konfirmimin n\u00eb mjedisin e tyre q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Prindërit mund të lexojnë çdo manual dhe artikull këshillash atje, duke u përpjekur të kuptojnë sjelljen e fëmijës së tyre dhe t’i afrohen më shumë . Por ndonjëherë qasja më e fuqishme është thjesht të qenit pranë fëmijëve të tyre dhe të dëgjosh nevojat e tyre. Të jesh aty për të dëgjuar në mënyrë efektive, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":37870,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[573],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37869","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=37869"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37869\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37871,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37869\/revisions\/37871"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/37870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=37869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=37869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=37869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}