{"id":37524,"date":"2024-11-18T01:20:10","date_gmt":"2024-11-18T01:20:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/?p=37524"},"modified":"2024-11-18T01:20:10","modified_gmt":"2024-11-18T01:20:10","slug":"25-gjera-per-jeten-qe-shpesh-i-mesojme-me-vonese","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/?p=37524","title":{"rendered":"25 gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn, q\u00eb shpesh i m\u00ebsojm\u00eb me vones\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"568\" src=\"https:\/\/radiojehona.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/IMG_9396-1024x568.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-37525\" srcset=\"https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/IMG_9396-1024x568.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/IMG_9396-300x166.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/IMG_9396-768x426.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/radiojehona.mk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/IMG_9396.jpeg 1125w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sokrati, i cil\u00ebsuar si nj\u00eb nga themeluesit e filozofis\u00eb per\u00ebndimore, u quajt dikur njeriu m\u00eb i zgjuar n\u00eb bot\u00eb nga Orakulli i Delfit. Kur Sokrati d\u00ebgjoi q\u00eb orakulli kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim t\u00eb till\u00eb, ai besonte se kjo deklarat\u00eb qe e gabuar. Sokrati tha: \u201dUn\u00eb di nj\u00eb gj\u00eb: q\u00eb nuk di asgj\u00eb\u201d. Si mundet q\u00eb njeriu m\u00eb i zgjuar i bot\u00ebs t\u00eb mos dij\u00eb asgj\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E d\u00ebgjova k\u00ebt\u00eb urt\u00ebsi paradoksale p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb nga m\u00ebsuesi im n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, kur isha 14 apo 15-vje\u00e7. Ajo pati nj\u00eb ndikim kaq t\u00eb fort\u00eb mbi mua, saq\u00eb e p\u00ebrdora th\u00ebnien e Sokratit si strategjin\u00eb time t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit. Ne mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb shpejt gj\u00ebra, por shpesh harrojm\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb ngjashme, dhe nganj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u2019i kujtojm\u00eb vetes gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb kemi m\u00ebsuar.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00eb posht\u00eb po rendisim 25 m\u00ebsime p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn, q\u00eb shpesh i m\u00ebsojm\u00eb me vones\u00eb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>P\u00ebrpjekja \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e mir\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mos thuaj kurr\u00eb \u201cS\u2019mundem m\u00eb!\u201d. N\u00eb vend t\u00eb saj thuaj \u201cPo e provoj nj\u00ebher\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mos u ankoni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ankesa \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga shp\u00ebrdorimet m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb koh\u00ebs. Ose b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka n\u00eb lidhje me t\u00eb, dhe n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nuk mundni, thjesht heshtni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Kaloni koh\u00eb me njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb doni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">K\u00ebta jan\u00eb familja dhe miqt\u00eb juaj m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. N\u00ebse s\u2019 keni familje, krijojeni nj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb. Shumica e njer\u00ebzve n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm vizitor\u00eb. Familja \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrjet\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4.&nbsp;<strong>Mos e filloni nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie n\u00ebse nuk keni r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un\u00eb e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa nj\u00eb her\u00eb. Ju mund t\u00eb p\u00eblqeni dik\u00eb dhe mendoni:\u201dEdhe ne mund ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb\u201d. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ide e mir\u00eb. Ju ose keni r\u00ebn\u00eb ose jo n\u00eb dashuri. Mos g\u00ebnjeni veten. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb as p\u00ebr ju, dhe as p\u00ebr personin tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"5\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>St\u00ebrvituni \u00e7do dit\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un\u00eb nuk e kam b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb deri koh\u00ebt e fundit. Nj\u00eb trup i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm, \u00ebsht\u00eb pik\u00ebnisja e gjith\u00e7kaje n\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00ebse s\u2019mundeni t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoni nj\u00eb trup t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb fort\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoni n\u00eb jet\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"6\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mbani nj\u00eb ditar<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jo, mbajtja e nj\u00eb ditari nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb pun\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebsh. Ai iu ndihmon t\u00eb b\u00ebheni nj\u00eb mendimtar dhe shkrimtar m\u00eb i mir\u00eb. \u201cUn\u00eb s\u2019dua t\u00eb jem shkrimtar\u201d- mund t\u00eb mendoni ju. Ok, po sa e-maile dhe mesazhe d\u00ebrgoni \u00e7do dit\u00eb? Gjithkush \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shkrimtar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"7\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Jini mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thuaji \u2018faleminderit\u2019 \u00e7dokujt dhe p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb. \u201cFaleminderit p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb bukur\u201d. \u201cFaleminderit p\u00ebr email-in tuaj\u201d. \u201cFaleminderit q\u00eb ishit atje p\u00ebr mua\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"8\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mos e vrisni mendjen se \u00e7far\u00eb mendojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb fund t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne vdesim, a mendoni realisht se ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se \u00e7far\u00eb mendojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebr ju?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"9\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Merrni p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreziqe<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mos jini kaq frikacak\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"10\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Zini nj\u00eb industri, jo nj\u00eb pun\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00ebse d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb b\u00ebheni i aft\u00eb n\u00eb di\u00e7ka, ju duhet kaloni vite&nbsp; m\u00eb radh\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb lloj pune. Por s\u2019mund ta b\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00ebse l\u00ebvizni nga nj\u00ebra industri tek tjetra. Zgjidhni nj\u00eb industri q\u00eb e doni dhe fillojeni nga fundi. Do t\u00eb gjeni rolin e p\u00ebrsosur p\u00ebr veten tuaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"11\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Udh\u00ebhiqni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kur e gjeni veten n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb kur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb shohin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, \u00ebsht\u00eb koha t\u00eb udh\u00ebhiqni. Ju jeni nj\u00eb udh\u00ebheq\u00ebs, kur vendosni t\u00eb b\u00ebheni i till\u00eb. Nuk ka asnj\u00eb pik\u00eb nistore apo ndonj\u00eb em\u00ebrim. \u00cbsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb vendim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"12\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Parat\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00eb fakt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu. Por ju duhet ta m\u00ebsoni veten t\u00eb mos e vrisni mendjen p\u00ebr parat\u00eb. Mos u b\u00ebni shum\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrvarur nga gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb zot\u00ebroni \u2013 p\u00ebrndryshe, do t\u00eb jen\u00eb sendet ato q\u00eb do t\u2019iu zot\u00ebrojn\u00eb ju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"13\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Jini t\u00eb sjellsh\u00ebm<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un\u00eb nuk po them q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jeni nj\u00eb pesh\u00eb e leht\u00eb. Ju mund t\u00eb jeni dikush q\u00eb nuk ia ndjen p\u00ebr nj\u00eb situate t\u00eb caktuar, dhe sillet me but\u00ebsi ndaj saj. Thjesht mos i fyeni njer\u00ebzit, duke menduar se jeni m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se ata, apo t\u00eb veproni si nj\u00eb idiot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"14\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>M\u00ebsoni \u00e7do dit\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Duhet t\u00eb st\u00ebrvisni trurin t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb vigjilent. Nuk jeni t\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb lexoni nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr n\u00eb dit\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar \u00e7do dit\u00eb. M\u00ebsoni nga gabimet tuaja. M\u00ebsoni nga njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrrreth jush \u2013 jini t\u00eb hapur ndaj asaj q\u00eb ata mund t\u2019iu m\u00ebsojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"15\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Pushoni para se t\u00eb lodheni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Edhe n\u00ebse e doni l\u00ebvizshm\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj, dhe \u00e7do dit\u00eb iu duket si nj\u00eb pushim, duhet t\u00eb merrni koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pushuar. Mos harroni kurr\u00eb: jeni njeri dhe jo nj\u00eb android.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"16\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mos gjykoni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vet\u00ebm pse njer\u00ebzit b\u00ebjn\u00eb zgjedhje t\u00eb ndryshme nga e juaja, ata nuk jan\u00eb budallenj. Gjithashtu, ju nuk dini \u00e7do gj\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me ta, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mos i gjykoni, por ndihmojini ata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"17\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mendoni p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mjafton t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e gjitha. Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi familje, fatura p\u00ebr t\u00eb paguar, dhe vet\u00eb problemet tona. Mos b\u00ebni gjithmon\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"18\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Jepni, pa pritur di\u00e7ka n\u00eb k\u00ebmbim<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mos mbani sh\u00ebnime. Do t\u00eb b\u00ebheni nj\u00eb person i hidhur n\u00ebse e b\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb. Falini vetes k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e t\u00eb dhuruarit. N\u00ebse merrni di\u00e7ka n\u00eb kthim, shum\u00eb mir\u00eb, por n\u00ebse jo nuk ka asnj\u00eb problem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"19\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Nuk ka nj\u00eb fundloj\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne, si nj\u00eb specie, thjesht ekzistojm\u00eb. Mos u mundoni t\u00eb kuptoni gjith\u00e7ka. G\u00ebzojeni udh\u00ebtimin tuaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"20\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>G\u00ebzojini gj\u00ebrat e vogla<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb klishet\u00eb, pasi jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta. Sidomos kjo. E dini pse? Gjithkush thot\u00eb se e di k\u00ebt\u00eb, por askush nuk jeton sipas k\u00ebsaj motoje. Ndjekim vet\u00ebm gj\u00ebrat e m\u00ebdha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"21\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mos e merrni veten shum\u00eb seriozisht<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po, po, ju jeni nj\u00eb individ, dhe njer\u00ebzit duhet t\u2019iu marrin seriozisht, e kuptoj. Por n\u00eb fund t\u00eb dit\u00ebs, ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi nj\u00eb tuf\u00eb milingonash q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqemi t\u00eb ndjekim t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat gj\u00ebra. Kthjellohuni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"22\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mos faj\u00ebsoni njer\u00ebzit<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7far\u00eb problemi ka? Doni t\u2019i nd\u00ebshkoni ata? Mos ua b\u00ebni k\u00ebt\u00eb njer\u00ebzve. Gjithashtu mos faj\u00ebsoni as veten \u2013 jeni thjesht qenie njer\u00ebzore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"23\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Krijoni di\u00e7ka<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb trash\u00ebgimi, pasi gjithsesi nuk do t\u00eb jeni k\u00ebtu p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebr ta par\u00eb at\u00eb, por p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i dobish\u00ebm. Kompozoni muzik\u00eb, shkruani nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr, nd\u00ebrtoni nj\u00eb tryez\u00eb, \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Do t\u00eb ndjeheni mir\u00eb me veten, plus q\u00eb jepni di\u00e7ka q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ta p\u00ebrdorin apo k\u00ebnaqen m\u00eb t\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"24\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Mos ktheni kok\u00ebn pas p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Reflektimi mbi t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn, \u00ebsht\u00eb i mir\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb gj\u00eb:t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"25\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Veproni<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mos q\u00ebndroni ulur, b\u00ebni di\u00e7ka. Pa veprim, nuk ka asnj\u00eb rezultat. Ju mund t\u00eb dini shum\u00eb. Por, ashtu si Sokrati, ju dhe un\u00eb nuk dim\u00eb asgj\u00eb. Prandaj duhet t\u00eb vazhdojm\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sokrati, i cil&euml;suar si nj&euml; nga themeluesit e filozofis&euml; per&euml;ndimore, u quajt dikur njeriu m&euml; i zgjuar n&euml; bot&euml; nga Orakulli i Delfit. Kur Sokrati d&euml;gjoi q&euml; orakulli kishte b&euml;r&euml; nj&euml; vler&euml;sim t&euml; till&euml;, ai besonte se kjo deklarat&euml; qe e gabuar. Sokrati tha: &rdquo;Un&euml; di nj&euml; gj&euml;: q&euml; nuk di asgj&euml;&rdquo;. 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